The Good, the Bad, and the UGLY!

The Good...
should really be called the great the grand...the fabulous weekend I had with my SM (sexy man) as I've decided to call him from now on! Get out your pen and paper folks..this post is going to be a doozy with abbreviations. SM and I had a nice, peaceful weekend, full of good food, smokin hot sex, wonderful cuddle time..and I hate that the weekend had to end it was back to work and all things "real". ick.

The Bad..
The EX..who, going forward, shall be called FT or FUCKTARD..had the kids. This is hard on any divorced couple I'm sure. Do I love the break? yes! I understand my kids are entitled to a relationship with him to but god its hard to share your kids with someone you cant stand..and it being his visitation is only the beginning

The Ugly
This is a little complicated but try to stay with me.. FT and I had some really good close friends, we spent all our time with them, their kids and our kids are best friends...very close! Well now thier marraige is in shambles and its so sad to see them go through alot of the same shit. Natually, I suppose..the male half of that couple (whom i will name in a minute) and FT are hanging out and comisserating..let me rephrase that in reality..getting together and drinking and bitching and whining. The Female half, who for now im going to call MPF -MY POOR FRIEND..and I have been talking and I've just been trying to encourage her and be there for he while she cries. So to say its caused some tension is to say the least.
I asked FT to please just be very cautious when he has our kids..that they arent hearing things they shouldnt be-he of course blew up at me and told me I was trying to control him and I must still love him and blah blah blah..very typical him
Well this weekend shit hit the fan. The male half of the other couple..who we are going to call LCEUSOS- Lying Cheating Emotoinally Unstable Sack of Shit- apparently has a GIRLFRIEND. Keep in mind, he and his wife, as of current, are living together and shes trying to get him to go to marriage counseling, while he basically calls her every name in the book and goes off to his girlfriend..who we're just going to call HO..for ho or hoe..depending on how you spell it. and yes I'm going to say defend calling her a ho...she KNOWS he is married and doesnt give a shit..just keeps telling him he'll never make it work with his wife anyway
Sooooo... after telling me that he will keep my kids away from all this shit... FT has the kids this weekend along with HIS OWN girlfriend..who we call BF - burger flipper..that one's self explanitory.
Anyway..promises promies about just spending time with the kids etc..and what really happened??
FT and LCEUSOS decide its a great time to get together at the house, have some drinks, play some pool, and hang out with BF and HO...all while my children were there??ohhh and i didnt mention havea freaking sleepover..girlfriends included of course.

My kids know LCEUSOS and MPF very well..they are like family..theyknow they are married and now there he is with some new chick??? WTH???? I know kids have to adjust to shit in life but to me it was ludacris for this to be going on. LCEUSOS and MPF have not seperated, decided on divorce, nada..so he is downright cheating and there is my stupid FT of an ex...having him over for sleepovers with his HO. What the hell is this all saying to my kids? And do any of these ASSHOLES even care????

Now I am stuck fielding questions from a 5 yr old like..

so mommy you grow up and fall in love and then later you dont love that person anymore and find someone new??? Does everybody do that?

SAD..and this mama bear was irate...but I have to give him his stupid time with the kids. I just have to love them when I have them and do everything in my power to not let them grow up to be deuchbags like some of the examples in their lives!!!

ps I cannot spell dooooshbag, dushbag, deuschbag, doshebag...whatever you get the point.

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